I got quite discouraged yesterday, convinced we must not be pregnant, since we had so frozen embryos, and since this is it for us.
Today I realized that it is way too early to despair. I am just 4days past a 5 day transfer, too early to know anything, one way or another.
I also realized I am waiting for the exact same symptoms to kick-in from my positive FET cycle, down to the same day. I have to get over that expectation.
So, I remain pregnant until proven otherwise and will think that way whenever doubt sets in.
New Adventures
8 years ago
I'm so glad you're feeling better than yesterday! I think it's really normal to feel discouraged, especially when you received the news about the third embryo. I think they picked the best two to transfer and they are going snuggle in!
ReplyDeleteHang in there, just a little while longer until you know. Do you have a date set for the blood test?
I hope your doubts are soon replaced by joy.
ReplyDeleteSorry you didn't have any to freeze. I know that is discouraging. I know exactly how you feel about going through another cycle of IVF.
ReplyDeleteSending sticky thoughts your way!!
"The waiting is the hardest part" sings Tom Petty - I heard that song yesterday, and thought of all of us trying to have babies. I'm sorry that you didn't have any to freeze - discouraging. But you have 2 perfect ones in there - way too soon to despair. Hang on to that hope!
ReplyDeleteKeep repeating "too soon" until it's time for the true answers.
ReplyDeleteI am holding out so much hope for you even on the days it is escapes you.
Get hope to take doubt out back and teach him a lesson. I'm crossing fingers and toes for you.
ReplyDeletepoppy - hang in there! the 2ww is the worst.
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I'm thinking of you Poppy!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Pam
thanks everyone!
ReplyDeleteI think I had forgotten how hard the 2ww is. I hated ER so much(both times) that I forgot about the *mental* anguish.
Yes, hope needs to teach doubt a lesson! :)